Q&A Forum - November 2010 (Best of Elise)

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That night seemed to awaken something within both my husband and myself. We've always had a female dominant marriage and I'd rate our sex life as being exceptional. And while I still have a couple of very close {non sexual} male friends in my life, I've had my husband put distance between any prior female friendships. That rule, which was instituted back when we were dating did wonders for his attitude and attentiveness, but this New Years incident seems to have pushed our relationship to the next level. Our marriage seems to have even more passion than I ever thought possible.

I continue to stay in touch with the old flame, but was just curious as to your thoughts on the whole matter, especially with kids in the picture.

A. That is a call you will have to make based on your own unique marriage. You know your husband better than anyone else. How will he react? Is he ready for it? Will this experience bring out more of his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature? In what way will he participate? Will it be a positive experience for all involved?