Q&A Forum - November 2010 (Best of Elise)

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A father can be a great nanny and he can change the diapers, clean up the messes, feed the children, and most importantly love the children. But a father cannot be a mother and he cannot be the nurturer. He can be nurturing but he cannot be the nurturer. Of course there are some cases when the father has no choice due to tragedy or an illness and he must do his best to be both father and mother to a child. These men are to be admired. However, all things being equal it is best for children if they bond with a female in those initial months after childbirth. Thanks for the great question and take care.

Q. As I read through your website and book, I notice that the D&S activities that couples participate in seem to get more intense with each passing year. What worked last year is getting boring this year. You stress over and over again that serving your woman is the core of the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle, and it is the place to start. Why does this lifestyle seem to progress is such a perverted way? Why is the man not content with just serving his woman? I know in my own life I’m getting bored with just servitude and find my mind drifting to the D&S fantasies. Just servitude doesn’t seem to be giving me the fulfillment that you claim other submissive顺从 — willing to obey men are experiencing.

Is the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle really like an addictive drug that you need to increase the dose every year by getting more perverted in your D&S activities?