Q&A Forum - November 2013 (Best of Elise)

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To answer the second part of your question, Yes, there are women who will do exactly what you suggest if they want to punish their husbands for a certain infraction but they do not want him to enjoy it. If a man is really into being whipped and he goes into subspace easily from this FemDom女性支配 — female domination activity, the Female Disciplinarian might decide that in order for the session to be a real punishment, she will require that he masturbate prior to the session, which will remove most if not all the erotic elements for him (although it might heighten the erotic elements for her if she becomes aroused at the thought that her submissive顺从 — willing to obey is suffering more than usual from her discipline).

Nevertheless, I believe if you want the D&S energy and the sexual passion to be present during a Discipline session, it is best if the man is in an aroused state. The longer he has been denied sexual release, the more discipline he can take, and the more discipline he can take, the more D&S energy can be exchanged during the session. Thanks for the question and best wishes.

Q. Ms Sutton, on a cuckolding forum someone posted an excerpt from your new book that had to do with the Boy Toy Club. This sounds like the perfect group for my wife and I. How can we contact them?