Q&A Forum - November 2014 (The best of Elise)

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It all could go back to an experience in your life. A man who finds the physical appearance of brunettes to portray a more dominant image to him than blondes might be because of an experience he had in his life with a brunette. I know one man who visited a number of Pro Doms but could never seem to experience a connection with any of them. None of his sessions were satisfying or fulfilling. In fact, he could never manage an erection in the presence of any of these women. But he finally visited a Pro Dom with whom there was immediate chemistry. He became erect at her first touch and he had a wonderful session that was very fulfilling to his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. What was the difference? She was the first brown eye brunette he visited and he found browned eye brunettes to be dominant. This was all in his head and he wasn’t aware of this until after this session. Why did he find brown eye brunettes to be dominant? His mother was a brunette with big brown eyes. In fact, as we discussed this, it dawned on him that this woman looked a lot like his mother when she was in her thirties. Psychologically, he equated his mother with being a dominant woman but he didn’t know that until he met this woman who reminded him of his mother. The Pro Dom with black hair and brown eyes represented loving female authority to him. That was his circumstance based on his unique nature. Like I said, there are so many variables that can cause a man to view certain women as being more dominant simply by their outward appearance.