Q&A Forum - November 2015

Screen 13 of 47

It’s the same thing with escorting. Escorts will say they are different from call girls because what the client is paying for is the girl’s company, not the sex. The girl is “escorting” the man to dinner or perhaps dinner and a show before they go back to the hotel for sex. An escort will say the sex is optional and she will only engage in that if she likes her client and if she does have sex the money has nothing to do with it. He paid for her company to dinner and the show, not the sex. The sex was between two consenting adults after the escorting. That is the thinking but if you believe that than you will believe that I am in favor of a patriarchal society. Of course it is all a form of prostitution but the sugar babies and escorts have come up with an angle to ease their conscience. They tell themselves that they are not selling their bodies for money when in fact they really are.

But none of that is important. All that matters is that your husband had sex with another woman therefore you have grounds to divorce him. So now you must decide if you want to divorce him and only you can make that decision. I believe in giving people second chances. If you believe he is sincere, you could always do the famous Ronald Reagan saying when dealing with the old Soviet Union, “trust but verify”.