Q&A Forum - November 2015

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Third, I would require he wear a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device when he is away from home. That would not have stopped him in engaging in the kind of activity he did with the stripper but most girls, even escorts, will know he is owned by another woman when they see the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device and that will scare most women away. They do not want jealous and controlling wives coming after them. After all, who do you think outed this girl on The Dirty? If I had to bet, it was a jealous wife. It could have been a rival dancer as strippers can be competitive with each other but odds are it was a jealous wife or girlfriend who wanted to alert other women out there about this girl, and it worked as you were able to find out about her by googling her name.

So my advice is if you want to give your husband a second chance, and it sounds like you do, I would definitely go with trust but verify. Use technology, monitor his actions and keep him under your control. Definitely get back into a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage, after all you admit you two were the happiest when you dominated him, so get back to it and it will help to rebuild that intimacy with your husband and hopefully he will no longer have the urge to stray.

This will not be easy but it is very possible to rebuild your marriage if you both are committed to it. I do wish you all the best.