Q&A Forum - November 2015

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Q. Hi Elise, I saw your website and am compelled to ask what is it about being a cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers that arouses men so much? The dominance theme seems to eventually gravitate toward that lifestyle, but it seems counterintuitive. Information from the anthropological perspective says that men are hard wired to procreate with as many females as possible, and do so at the expense of other males.

On another level, isn't cuckolding enough to establish dominance? What is it with practices like golden showers黄金浴 — peeing on a partner, whipping, bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained, etc? That stuff seems so weird. It seems to me that cuckolding the husband with his active participation is the ultimate form of domination.

Thanks for any reply you may provide.

A. Cuckolding means different things to different people but within female domination, cuckolding is an activity that a wife engages in to take her husband into a deeper level of submission to her through intense humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose. Cuckolding is also a social statement within female domination. Some would agree with you that cuckolding is the ultimate act of female domination, whereas others simply view it as another weapon in a dominant wife's arsenal or merely another D&S activity.