Q&A Forum - November 2015

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It is okay to take breaks from this lifestyle and we can certainly enjoy our new levels of growth for prolonged periods of time, but at some point there will need to be new growth. What that growth entails will vary from couple to couple. There is no magic formula or magic plan. You have to be true to your heart and be willing to share with each other and experiment with each other. There is no substitute for communication and honesty. And for all men, there is no substitute to developing a servant’s heart. No matter how much you want to experience the more “advanced” stuff, the fundamentals of serving a woman will never change. That is what will always provide the deepest fulfillment to the submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature of man.

So getting back to the central point of your question, a man can be fulfilled and happy by simply serving a woman. It comes down to his heart and his attitude. You may be desiring more advance D&S play but when you come into that revelation of the value and the authority of women, your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature will find that all forms of serving (both inside and outside the bedroom) are fulfilling. You may not be there yet but that will come with growth if you stay committed to your service of your wife. Take care!