Q&A Forum - November 2015

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My husband was having an affair with a stripper in PA who apparently also works as an escort. He met her one night at a gentlemen’s club and he kept going back to see her. He eventually told her about his sexual interests and she began to dominate him, not overtly but in a manipulative way. Each time my husband traveled to PA he would pay this girl for the right to orally pleasure her body. He would take her out to dinner and they would go back to his hotel and he would go down on her while she counted the money he paid her as if she were disinterested. It was financial domination combined with female body worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service combined with humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose. When I learned this I was devastated. I now know these details because after I uncovered the affair he finally came clean with me.

Not only was my husband spending our money on this stripper but him regularly going down on a girl who also works as an escort was risky behavior, although he swears he didn’t know she was an escort. Needless to say I kicked him out of the house and we might be headed for divorce. When I found out this girl’s name I did what any woman would do, I googled her. To my shock there was an article about this girl on a site called The Dirty. I never heard of this site but it is obviously a gossip site. I am sending you the link.