Q&A Forum - November 2018 (The best of Elise)

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It comes back to how you view your wife. If you will elevate her, respect her and prefer her, you will not dehumanize her into the object of your sexual fantasies. But don’t be surprised that while doing this, you will find yourself back into the state of mind that is known as subspace. When the desire for female domination comes upon you, do not confuse it with your sexual addiction but rather channel it into the loving and intimate service of your wife. You can be free of the one while embracing the other. I do wish you the very best and I hope you find the balance that you are seeking. God Bless!

Q. Dear Elise, I have been in a loving relationship with my husband for 11 years. The last three, femdom女性支配 — female domination. He is my submissive顺从 — willing to obey. I have been avidly searching for a femdom女性支配 — female domination site that is not as extreme as those I currently find on the internet. Having come from a mostly vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink background, I 'grew' into my role.

The things I read, especially other groups and sites, are so extreme. I have found it difficult to even read the posts. I do not understand why women have to get into a "macha" (fem for macho) swagger to try to out femdom女性支配 — female domination everyone else. I am alarmed at what the women are attempting to do to their subs顺从者 — a submissive person even though it may be physically harmful! Where are their brains???? Do they want to live out the rest of their lives feeling guilty for ruining their man's physical ability to enjoy sex for the rest of their lives?