Q&A Forum - November 2018 (The best of Elise)

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Most submissive顺从 — willing to obey husbands who desire to be cuckolded like it when a wife calls her lover a “real man”. By calling her lover a “real man” she is in fact telling her husband that he is not a “real man”. The humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose is what transports the husband to subspace. It is no different than when a wife calls her husband a “worm” or a “mouse” or a “sissy伪娘 — a man dressed and treated as a girl” or any other kind of humiliating name. It is all designed to stimulate the husband’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey triggers, which if he enjoys humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play, will bring him mental pleasure and sexual arousal. Hopefully she is not doing this to be mean or cruel outside of a D&S setting, but rather she is doing this a D&S technique to further her husband’s submission. I have written how a woman needs to be mindful of how she utilizes humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play. Within the bedroom or a D&S scene it can be powerful, erotic and fun. Outside the bedroom in a non-sexual or non-D&S setting, it can be hurtful and misunderstood.