Q&A Forum - November 2019 (Best of Elise)

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He is more experienced with female domination and had been dominated in the past. We recently had my first D&S session. I was a little nervous but I was dressed in a fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfit and I have to say it helped me feel more dominant. I am just a little confused because he was so submissive顺从 — willing to obey from the start yet I never saw the look that has been described as subspace. Is it possible he was there from the start? He never resisted any of my commands. How can I tell if he is in subspace or at least when I am really pushing his buttons?

I also tried forced feminization on him, making him do some housework while wearing lingerie情趣内衣 — women's fancy underwear. He complied but he had an erection the whole time. Afterward he told me that he would do whatever I enjoy but his number one fantasy is to be naked around a clothed female as opposed to wearing lingerie情趣内衣 — women's fancy underwear. I don't completely understand the clothed female naked male fantasy and part of me is wondering since he had an erection when I feminized him if maybe he is just trying to test my dominance by seeing if he can control some of the things we do? Any insight you could give would be greatly appreciated! Thanks so much.

A. I am pleased to hear that my site helped you to overcome your inhibitions but you should be proud of yourself for having the courage to explore this lifestyle with your husband. It is a journey and it is only natural for you to have some questions.