Q&A Forum - October 2007 (The best of Elise)

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I tend to agree with your wife’s assessment about the potential self-image differences between female Doms and female subs顺从者 — a submissive person. I am all about encouraging women to fulfill their potential, to dream big, to develop a healthy self-image and to expect to be treated like the superior gender from the men in their lives. A man can most certainly engage in D&S activities with a woman where he is the top in the bedroom IF the woman desires this sexually. But the male must do this out of a heart of love and respect for the woman. I advocate for a man to worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service a woman for her entire nature and to get to know her intimately; body, mind and spirit.

I encourage women to develop their physical and sexual assets and to tap into their sexual power. This is always done best from the dominant position. Male domination is a further extension of the dying patriarchal system, even if it is repackaged to fit within the D&S community as an alternative lifestyle. Men dominating women is not alternative. Men have been dominating women for centuries and millenniums, but thankfully women are no longer accepting the subservient role.