Q&A Forum - October 2007 (The best of Elise)

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Q. Dear Ms Sutton, My name is Robert and I live in the Detroit area. I have read your site with great interest for a number of years. I can honestly, admit that when I started reading your site I read it for fantasy fulfillment, however, the more I read, the more scared I became knowing how well you knew how my brain was wired. I knew that using your procedures, any woman so inclined could exercise control over me. I continued reading and browsing pro-domme女主人 — a dominant woman sites, my sex life became a fantasy world, and I all but quit dating. No real woman could ever actually compete with my fantasy women. As I aged, I began to realize that fantasy women can not give comfort, share in a laugh, or help with other emotional issues.

I started dating again, and have had terrible difficulties trying to introduce vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink woman to the idea. I started attending munches, and writing to ads from dominant women. Most of the women I meet are fully aware of the power and potential benefits. They are predators, looking to use men for whatever they can get. I read you site about loving female dominance, and I wonder where the love is? I did chat with one woman for a month. She really seemed to care about my welfare, and I wanted to train under her so badly. But she rejected me, said I behaved like a friend and not a submissive顺从 — willing to obey. I know I still have areas that I'm going to have difficultly letting go of, but now I feel like I'm in a catch 22. How does a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male find LOVE from a dominant woman?