Q&A Forum - October 2007 (The best of Elise)

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My favorite part of the weekend was the play parties at night. My wife liked some of the classes because there was a more laid back atmosphere in the classes and she did learn some important BDSM techniques and safety tips that will come in handy in our private time together. I liked the play parties best even though we didn’t participate but only observed. What I liked best was viewing the dominant women in their fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfits. It was a real orgy for the senses of a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male and I am lucky to be married to a woman who does not mind it when I look at dominant women in fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing attire. If you had a leather, latex乳胶 — shiny rubber used for tight clothes or boot fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing, this was the place to be.

We made the best of the weekend and took back home with us a real BDSM education. I know I will never be able to get my wife to attend another such event but I think we are the better for having gone.

One observation that my wife made to me was that she noticed that most of the dominant women were attractive and healthy looking whereas most of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey women were very overweight. I noticed the same thing but my attention was mostly on the dominant women. My wife came to the conclusion that some of these women were not really submissive顺从 — willing to obey by nature but this was a way they could experience some form of intimacy from a man. My wife is a loyal reader of your site and she was bothered watching dominant males whipping and inflicting consensual pain on overweight women.