Q&A Forum - October 2007 (The best of Elise)

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Your wife is obviously an observant woman and her discernment about the differences between Female Domination and male domination are dead on accurate, in my opinion. I probably should not go into this too deeply other than to say that to understand the difference between female domination and male domination you need to approach it from a sociological perspective. Never forget that within female domination, it is the male who usually approaches the female as he is driven by his need for loving female authority. I bet it is safe to assume that it was your idea to attend this event and it is also a safe bet to assume that you were the one who initially approached your wife about the female domination lifestyle.

I know that I open myself up for criticism when I say that there is a world of difference between female domination and male domination within the D&S community. However, I must be honest about what I believe to be the truth. I have been active in the BDSM community and I know male dominant/female submissive顺从 — willing to obey couples who enjoy their BDSM sexuality and lifestyle. But when you approach this topic from a sociological perspective, from a factual biological certainty and from the reality that we are coming out of a patriarchal society, the contrasts between female domination and male domination couldn’t be more evident.