Q&A Forum - October 2009 (The best of Elise)

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We have embraced the "Queen and knight" roles in the household. She rations my orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax. I have picked up a great share of the household duties. I service her orally and she has stopped the same for me, since we embraced this lifestyle. Which I am great with, I want her to do things SHE feels comfortable doing.

Several times, she has had her way with me with a dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis. I've been laid down on an ottoman. A third time, we were in a 2-person Jacuzzi and she had me get on my hands and knees and she pumped me with her dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis until I begged her to stop. It was wonderful, "sweet torture" we call it.

Anyway, we have looked at strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness harnesses绑带 — straps that hold a toy on the body and attachments. She has hesitated, and now told me she is not interested. She says it is too close to male gay sex in her mind. I would be deliriously happy to be taken by her on occasion, and I think it would help expand my submission to her.

My question is how would you explain that strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness play could be, and is, an appropriate activity for heterosexual couples and (as it is in my mind) without any gay overtones?

A. I devote an entire chapter to Strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness play in my book “Female Domination”. In that chapter, I go over the psychology behind strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness play, for both the male receiver and the female penetrater. The following is from that chapter: