Q&A Forum - October 2010 (Best of Elise)

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My main question to you is, I fully agree with female domination and female superiority. What bothers me greatly is how come the idea of femdom女性支配 — female domination in the media and Internet is always portrayed as a beautiful, busty, sexy woman scantily dressed, domineering a handsome man. This is Hollywood falsities that entrap our society. Shouldn't Femdom女性支配 — female domination and Female superiority preclude the sexiness and the sexual innuendos involved? Females are superior regardless of the appearance that they posses. I am sorry if I am critical but that seems to be the prevailing sense out there. I really love your work and read your material religiously.

A. I wouldn’t worry so much about what the media or male operated Internet sites promote as being a dominant woman. What matters is the reality of your own life and your own marriage, and it sounds like you have your hubby firmly in hand. If you got him to surrender complete control of the finances over to you, then I would say you have him at a pretty deep level in his submission. No matter how much you use the hairbrush on him, it sounds as if you are growing in your dominance and he growing in his submission. It sounds like he trusts you with power and he is happy to be in submission to you. So I wouldn’t be overly concerned about the male fantasy of female domination. You and your husband are living it in reality.