Q&A Forum - October 2010 (Best of Elise)

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I would say that you may need to compromise. I would not recommend you come out and discuss with a woman your desire to develop breasts乳房 — a woman's chest. You do not want that to be the foundation of your relationship. You need to find a woman who is open to FemDom女性支配 — female domination and who is open to feminizing a male (whatever that many entail). Once you begin that exploration, then you can tell her of your deeper desires but you must be willing to accept that she may not want to go there. That is where the compromising comes into play.

My advice to you is really no different than my advice to any man who desires to be dominated by a woman. You have to put the woman’s needs ahead of your own. You need to find an open-minded woman and you need to focus on her and what she desires sexually. You have to build that level of trust with her so that you can be who you really are with her without the fear of being judged. In that regard, you are no different than the man who wants his wife to spank him.

You may not get to experience all of your desires but if you find a woman who is open to exploring your sexuality, you may find your desires can be fulfilled with other activities. For example, she may be willing to use the strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness when you are in drag but she may draw the line at allowing you to interact with another man. You need to be willing to accept her limits as she explores your limits.