Q&A Forum - October 2010 (Best of Elise)

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I also love to lick her shoes and boots clean (including the soles) regardless of how dirty they might be. I also enjoy golden showers黄金浴 — peeing on a partner where the woman requires that I swallow her golden nectar.

What is your take on these behaviors? Have you ever done any of those activities and do you like them personally? Thanks in advance for your answer.

A. I have done all that you list with the exception of using a man as a human ashtray. I do not smoke but I have been around women who do and who have used men as their ashtrays. I would classify this under the objectification of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. The psychological reasons are similar to men who want to be objectified, such as being a woman’s footstool, or her doormat, or her bathmat, or her rug, or her seat cushion, or her clothes rack, etc. The only difference with being a woman’s ashtray is that you have to endure the disgusting taste of the cigarette butts and their ashes. That places this fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing over more toward humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play.