Q&A Forum - October 2010 (Best of Elise)

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Treat her with the respect she deserves. Get into the habit of submitting to her decisions and encourage her to take the lead. Seduce her dominant nature through the etiquette practices outlined above as well as in my article you cite. Give her room to grow and establish that trust. Learn to communicate with her and to confide in her. As you establish trust and as you seduce her dominant nature, when she begins to display an openness to FemDom女性支配 — female domination activities, then you can show her my site and perhaps give her my book. Then you can confide in her about your desire to be in chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm which will empower her in the relationship. But that is down the road a piece. If you bring this up before she is ready to hear it, she might think you are “weird” because she does not yet understand. For now focus on getting to know her. Focus on serving her and her needs. You may not be compatible and it is best to find that out prior to opening up to her about your D&S desires.