Q&A Forum - October 2010 (Best of Elise)

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My lover is 44, and I'm 27. She's the light of my life, and these last months I'm trying to give her what she wants the most in the world. I'd like to give her more of myself, but what if?

A. Lets turn your question around. What if you hold back your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature from her and thus you hold back your passion, your body, your mind and your whole being. Then if she were to pass from this world, you would have to live with the knowledge that you never got to share many wonderful moments of intimacy with her. You would have to live with the knowledge that you did not give her your all. You would live a life of regret. Which is more of a tragedy?

Life is short and none of us are guaranteed tomorrow. So shouldn’t we live life to the fullest today? You see, you are looking at this totally from a selfish point of view. You are allowing fear to rob you of today. You are worried what her passing would do to you. You should be focused on how you can make her life the best while she is with you, not worrying about what your life would be like if she were gone. You are 17 years younger so the odds are that she may very well leave this world before you do. But she is now in her sexual prime so this is the perfect time for you to submit your entire being to her. This is the perfect time for the two of you to explore this lifestyle so that you two can bond on many wonderful levels, physically, emotionally and spiritually.