Q&A Forum - October 2012 (The best of Elise)

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I know he reads your website and would appreciate your knowledgeable answer to this question. Elise, before I met Nick I had never experienced the "rush" that comes from having a man under my control. Your informative website has allowed my empowerment to grow beyond my wildest expectations and I continue to look for ways to make this wonderful but submissive顺从 — willing to obey man ever more so. Thank you so much.

A. Sex is about so much more than just the physical, especially within the world of Female Domination. So while your sex drive and your interest in sex has subsided as you have aged, that does not mean it cannot be re-ignited, if not physically than at least mentally.

The “rush” you are experiencing is within your psyche and there are sexual elements to this. So never rule out the possibility that you will experience a revival within your bodily need for some form of sexual pleasure. I would suggest that as you explore your dominant nature with this man that you branch out into the sexual area from time to time and explore some forms of D&S in the bedroom. A part of this can be to allow your submissive顺从 — willing to obey a rare privilege of having a supervised orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax in your presence and for your entertainment. Even if he cannot “get it up” he probably can still orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax, which will clean out his plumbing without the need for a prostate milking.