Q&A Forum - October 2015

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A. I wouldn’t worry so much about what the media or male operated Internet sites promote as being a dominant woman. What matters is the reality of your own life and your own marriage, and it sounds like you have your hubby firmly in hand. If you got him to surrender complete control of the finances over to you, then I would say you have him at a pretty deep level in his submission. No matter how much you use the hairbrush on him, it sounds as if you are growing in your dominance and he growing in his submission. It sounds like he trusts you with power and he is happy to be in submission to you. So I wouldn’t be overly concerned about the male fantasy of female domination. You and your husband are living it in reality.

That is not to say that a busty, beautiful and sexy woman cannot also be successful as a dominant woman. A woman who recognizes and who utilizes her sexuality is indeed a wise woman. The key is the woman’s attitude. No matter how beautiful the woman, if she walks and talks dominant, she will become dominant. The dominant woman develops that aura of domination and it is that aura of superiority that the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male cannot resist. Attitude is the key because a woman can be beautiful but she can also be the victim of sexual exploitation. Beauty is wonderful but only if the woman uses her God-given beauty the correct way. Far too many beautiful women are in abusive relationships with men because they allowed their beauty to be a liability instead of an asset.