Q&A Forum - October 2015

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It is interesting that you equate your desire to be used as an ashtray along with your desire to lick a woman’s shoes and boots. Of the activities you list, my favorite would be boot domination but for a totally different reason. I do not view boot domination as objectification. To me, boot domination is the opposite because it involves intimacy on some level. The shoes and the boots are connected to my body and I can feel the slight sensation of the tongue through the material of the shoe or the boot. Having your feet kissed and licked and having your toes sucked is sensual and I would classify that as sexual foreplay. The boots place a barrier between the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male and the woman’s body but the boot becomes an extension of the woman’s body, especially if the male has a boot fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing. A man with a boot fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing will relish in being at a woman’s feet as he worships崇拜侍奉 — adoring service her. He is not in a hurry to gain access to other parts of her body. He will stay there until the woman orders him to go elsewhere. Boot domination is one of my favorite FemDom女性支配 — female domination activities. There is an element of sensuality in having a man worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service your boots but the mental imagery and psychological aspects are what are most enjoyable. I have written about the psychological aspects of the boot fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing in past Q&A entries.