Q&A Forum - October 2016

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There is no dichotomy between a man who willingly (and more than likely paying for the privilege) to be caned by a skilled, intelligent, beautiful woman and a man who is forced against his will to be caned by a government. I see no problem at all for a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman, even a so-called sadistic Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman, to promote human rights around the world. In fact, I am willing to bet that the skilled Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman understands the abuse of human rights better than most people because she understands the psychology of discipline, punishment and humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose. She understands what is healthy and healing and what is abusive and a violation of basic human rights.

You chose to join her site and her site was as advertised. I am sure you were not disappointed but always remember that the woman in the pictures and in those video clips has many sides to her personality. Just because a woman is a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman and just because she ‘loves her job’, that does not mean she is not a very caring and loving person. After all, she is a woman and thus multifaceted and complex.

Some of the most sadistic women I have known (sadistic as in being very harsh during D&S sessions with men) were also some of the kindest and compassionate women when it came to caring for innocent animals and children. One woman I knew gave 20% of all the proceeds from her sessions to the Animal Welfare Society. So never judge a book by its cover and never confuse compassion with what goes on during a D&S session.