Q&A Forum - October 2016

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You’ve been around this lifestyle long enough to know the many benefits to the woman. Just look at your marriage. The reason you and your husband have such a good relationship is because of all the “work” you put into dominating him back when you started to dominate him and back when you did my procedures.

You are a dominant woman and you have dominant energy that when you release it via D&S sessions in the bedroom, you and your husband will both experience many wonderful and intimate FemDom女性支配 — female domination experiences. Remember, you need this as much as he does. Don’t view this lifestyle as purely something he needs. His submission is what will satisfy you as a woman; sexually, emotionally and spiritually. If you will embrace your dominance and go with the flow of your dominant energy, and if you will feed off of his submissive顺从 — willing to obey energy, the passion will be reignited.

Passion cannot be produced through willpower alone. There are those psychological and emotional triggers that will generate passion. For example, your husband may have a certain fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing that will ignite his passion, which in turn may ignite your passion once your dominant energy senses his submissive顺从 — willing to obey energy. I use the word “energy” but energy is another way to say “passion”. Your passion will feed off of his passion, and vice versa.