Q&A Forum - October 2016

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A. I must ask, "Would your wife be open to the concept of adding spice and romance to the bedroom?" If you took the approach that you desire some D&S in the bedroom for the purpose of increasing intimacy and romance in your marriage, I am sure your wife would be willing to pursue it as long as you didn’t overwhelm her with the so-called fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing and kinky aspects. A conservative woman who was raised in a conservative home might have difficulty understanding the benefits of the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle to the woman. She may have preconceived ideas about what a “normal sex life” is meant to be within a marriage. Therefore, anything outside of her preconceived ideas may come across to her as being bizarre or unnatural. That is not her fault, but rather a byproduct of her upbringing.

The good news for you is that a lot of women who now practice female domination were once just like your wife. Many conservative women who thought all D&S was bizarre have since embraced D&S in the bedroom because their dominant natures were seduced and brought forth by the genuine submission of the men in their lives. Once a woman can get past the stumbling block that all D&S is strange or perverted, and once she begins to experiment with her dominant nature, she will realize how much she loves the dominant role and she will come to understand the many benefits of the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle. The truth is that FemDom女性支配 — female domination is a very romantic lifestyle.