Q&A Forum - October 2018

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As I am sure you are aware, I neither endorse not discourage cuckolding. I believe it is up to free people to make this decision based on their individual relationships and needs. I do strongly caution couples to communicate their feelings about cuckolding throughout the process so that both the wife’s feelings and the husband’s feelings are taken into account. Cuckolding is not for everyone and in fact, I maintain it is not for most because of the emotional elements.

Cuckolding must be satisfying to all parties at least on some level. That doesn’t mean that the man must like the experience on all levels because if the wife wants to use cuckolding as a tool to dominate her husband, the husband needs to be open to the possibility if this activity stimulates his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. It is only natural that the husband will struggle with some emotional issues and have difficulty adapting to some aspects of the cuckolding experience. But if the benefits of the overall experience (as far as the wife’s needs and desires and the husband’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment) outweigh the husband’s reluctance, than it could be argued that the wife is within her right to pursue her sexual liberation outside the marriage (with the husband’s full knowledge and blessing).