Q&A Forum - September 2012 (The best of Elise)

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We, women, have the hold on one of the most strong drives of human beings, sex. We are the dominant gender, because we have the key for the overwhelming force that drives human males, sex. Our sex appeal, that drives men crazy, is a powerful hold that Nature put in our hands, a power that allows us to dominate over men.

Sometimes men seem dominant, they fight to dominate. In fact what they do is to fight other men for us. In the past they fought to get resources that made them attractive for women, providing the resources that ensured the survival of their wives and children, and fought against other men to be more attractive to women showing a higher fitness for survival. Oh, yes, they also fight to keep other men from getting their wives, although they have not always succeeded.

A fact is that a significant proportion of married women have extramarital sex. Why?. The answer is obvious, they want to, and this is rewarding for them and good for our species. Married women still find men other than their husband attractive, appealing, sometimes the other is much more appealing and the final result is an extramarital affair. But why we want other men and extramarital sex despite of being married? Are we perverse?.