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Q&A Forum - September 2012 (The best of Elise)

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What I find so fascinating about the growing trend and gaining popularity of cuckolding is that the husbands are remaining monogamous while the wives are taking other lovers with the husband’s knowledge. There is no cheating or deceit. The wife is bold and open and the husband submits to the wife’s sexual liberation. This is an entirely different scenario and ushers in an entirely new power dynamic. Another aspect of this is that often it is the husband who suggests cuckolding to the wife, as the thought stimulates his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. The husband wants to be dominated by the act of being cuckolded by his wife. The husband wants to give this enormous power and control to his wife. This opens the door to such power dynamics like enforced male chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm and orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial while the wife is expressing her sexual liberation. The mind games here and the D&S aspects are way beyond the mere thrill of having an affair.

The growing practice of cuckolding is yet another strong sign of the societal trend toward female domination. However, it is still a minority practice and will be for some time because of the emotional issues. Couples should not rush into this activity and husbands should never try to push their wives into this activity. Cuckolding must be mutually satisfying and mutually agreed upon or else it is just another form of cheating and the end result will be negative. Thanks again for the question and comments.