Q&A Forum - September 2012 (The best of Elise)

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I am quite visible in the community and work hard in my job. The problems I am having relates to the effect my Wife is having on these important aspects of my life. She has recently intensified the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm relationship beyond what I ever expected. My wife has a rule that I am not allowed to complain to her at any time about wearing CB 3000 or ask for release, unless it is a legitimate emergency relating to my health. The first (and only) time I made the mistake of requesting a "break", She punished me by adding a full week between times for my sexual release. I’m willing to compromise, like exchanging more "time" in the cage for lesser denial periods. But that just disappoints Her and causes her to punish me more.

Do You have any suggestions as to how I might be able to convey this to Her, without repercussion? The other practical problem is that it is also affecting my ability to do things that are either part of my career or lifestyle. For example, I get invited to play golf with colleagues or to go to the health club. I've been dodging my colleagues that past few months, which is uncharacteristic of me, because I’m so afraid to change in the men's room or sit in the men's hot tub/sauna桑拿 — a hot room for sweating (where, naturally, everybody is undressed). At some point, I’m going to have to think of a solution or people will think I’m a flake. Do you know how other submissives顺从 — willing to obey deal with this issue?