Q&A Forum - September 2012 (The best of Elise)

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Too many men try to get the cart before the horse. There are women all over who will be receptive and open to the concept of a female-led relationship. She may not want to wear leather or boots at this time because to her, such a request is a man being self-centered on his own fantasies. But the man who is dedicated to serving a woman with a worshipful and humble attitude has the best chance of drawing out more of a woman’s dominant nature and once she comes into a better understanding of the benefits of some D&S in the bedroom, she may begin to desire to don some leather and to wield the whip on occasion.

The key to most modern day women is that the D&S must fit within the overall concept of the relationship and not be just a “kinky” sexual activity to please a man. Once the woman realizes how D&S can be beneficial to her and enhance romance and intimacy, she will be more open to it. Dominant women (and potential dominant women) are all around but men need to know how to appeal to these women. And the best way is (to borrow from the famous JFK speech), “Ask not what a dominant woman can do for you, but ask what can you do for a dominant woman!”

You have that attitude and women took notice how you treated your wife. Single men can learn from your example as women will take notice when a man reveres women and exhibits a desire to serve women. God Bless.