Q&A Forum - September 2009 (The best of Elise series)

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I hope you will be willing to answer my questions so that when the time comes I will be able to be helpful to my wife as she makes her decision as to whether I should wear a CB or not.

A. You pretty much answered your own questions. It is basically all of the above. The use of a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device has different meanings to different couples. To a man who struggles with habitual masturbation a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device is almost a must. It isn't that he isn't dedicated to his Queen as much as he lacks self-control. Some men can be trusted to stay on their diet whereas others need accountability. Some men can be trusted with financial responsibility whereas other men need strict overseeing by their wives. Some men are weaker than others and some men need more training than others. It comes down to the man and his level of self-control.

A chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device can also be a kind of fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing. Some men want to wear one. The feel and sight is a constant reminder that they are under the control of a woman and that brings them mental pleasure. It can also be an outward sign to both the man and the dominant woman of her ownership of his privates. The chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device is ever before a couple and it is a constant reminder of their FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage.