Q&A Forum - September 2013 (best of Elise)

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I remember as far back as the early 1980’s men telling me about how they were aroused by the movie “All the Marbles” which was a movie about female wrestling. Peter Faulk managed the California Dolls and the male audience loved seeing these beautiful women wrestling. There is a sexual element to this common male fantasy as more men than society realizes wants to be sexually submissive顺从 — willing to obey to females. Fantasies about strong women are the result of man’s desire to be sexually submissive顺从 — willing to obey.

I have talked to a number of men who have actually experienced being dominated by a female through wrestling. Some paid for this experience as they visited a professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman who offered wresting as a service. And others have actually had real life experiences, such as being beat up by a female bully in school.

One gentleman told me about the time when he was in college and he attended an event where a female wrestler offered to wrestle men from the audience. His girlfriend dared him and he accepted in order to prove his manhood in front of his girlfriend. The result is that he lost and he was humiliated and emasculated not only by the female wrestler but also by his girlfriend as she never let him live it down. Years later, he still finds the experience to be erotic, although he would never admit that to others.