Q&A Forum - September 2014 (The best of Elise)

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The BDSM event might have been a culture shock for the two of you but you lived through it and like you said, you had an educational experience. Your wife had a revelation about her gender as well as the differences between female domination and male domination, and that revelation alone was worth the weekend. She may not realize it just yet, but she experienced growth and as uncomfortable as it was for her, it was another step in her journey as she continues to blossom into a confident, dominant woman. Take care.

Q. Dear Miss Sutton, Thank you so much for creating your wonderfully informative and provocative website. You truly are an intelligent, strong, Superior Woman.

My question to you is as follows. I am a male in my early twenties, and since the age of seventeen I was fascinated by thoughts of BDSM and the Dominant/submissive顺从 — willing to obey lifestyle. I was also coming to terms with myself as being homosexual. The furthest I ever went with any Female was in high school and that was just kissing.

I have been trained by a few Dominant Gay men, and those experiences have been quite enjoyable. (Bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained and Discipline, chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm training, leather, latex乳胶 — shiny rubber used for tight clothes, etc) But, there is a growing part of me which wonders what it would be like to experience training from a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman.