Q&A Forum - September 2021 (The best of Elise)

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It’s Ok to be shy, laid back, passive and an introvert as long as these traits do not prevent you from experiencing life. If they do, than force yourself to get out there and when you are out there, be attentive. Notice the world around you. You could be in a library and a woman might need a pen and you can be Johnny on the spot. You can be at a mall and a woman may have her hands full and you could hold a door open for her. You could be at the gym and a woman is trying to figure out how to use the new equipment and you could volunteer to show her. Again, be friendly and you will have friends and if you will build a friendship with a single woman, who knows what could transpire from there? I do wish you the best.

Q. I am a single man in search of a dominant woman. How can I, as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male, best serve and please the women who are in my life now? For example, my new boss at work, Jill, is a woman about three years older than me. Her assistant, Amy, who is over me in the department, is 20 years younger than I am. Though I probably have more experience in what I do than both of them combined, I feel somewhat intimidated by them, especially Amy as she tends to be more assertive. While I'm not interested in a sexual relationship with either (they're both married), I do want to be an asset to both of them and to help them advance in their careers. Do you have any suggestions for how I can best do this?