Q&A Forum - September 2004

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We haven't yet discussed the use of dildos假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis in lieu of conventional intercourse, but I would like to offer this as an alternative in the event She wants to experience both penetration and keeping me confined at the same time. I just wanted Your opinion on whether You view the use of a dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis as further submission of the male (maybe in a humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose sense - as in, your penis阴茎 — the male sex organ isn't allowed to touch Me, but that one is. Or as a psychological/innocent form of cuckolding, etc.), or do You view this as something that's no different than penile penetration?

A. I love it when my husband uses a dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis on me while he is denied the right to enter me. There are many components to this sexual activity. First, it reminds him that sex is for the woman’s pleasure, as I am being ravished and he is being denied.

Second, it is a form of humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose and cuckolding as my dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis is much bigger than his penis阴茎 — the male sex organ and I can see the embarrassment on his face as he takes the large dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis in his hand and uses it on me. He is amazed that I can take all of it and it definitely humiliates him, which excites him and takes him to subspace.