Q&A Forum - September 2004

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Your boyfriend’s erection is the result of this submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature expressing itself. He can run but he cannot hide from the truth of who he is and what he wants. He wants women to rule him and specifically, he wants you to dominate him. When you beat him in a game or in sports, his ego takes a blow but his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature likes it. He wants you to defeat him so his ego is weakened, which will allow his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature to be freed. Every time a woman defeats him and every time he hears about women defeating men, it substantiates to him what his nature has been telling him. Namely, that society is evolving toward female dominance.

His embarrassment is a result of his male ego. He doesn’t want you to know that he wants to be dominated. The patriarchy has sold him a lie so he thinks it is a sign of weakness when a woman defeats a man or when a woman excels in a so-called man’s world. He is ashamed of his erection because it tells you what his mouth dare not tell you. His erection tells you the truth about what he desires. He desires for you to dominate him. He desires for women to rule. He believes that women are superior and he likes it because that is nature’s way. His ego prevents him from verbalizing and his ego prevents him from admitting this but his erection is his nature being expressed without the censorship of his ego.