Q&A Forum - September 2004

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Rather than use a code word or catch phrase, how about a simple hint that doesn't require words. I suggest that submissive顺从 — willing to obey men and dominant women should wear a small black rubber band around their wrist. Rubber bands are very small, inconspicuous, and there aren't many people who wear black rubber bands around their wrist. Only people who read your site would be looking for this sign on other people and would know what it might mean. If someone who doesn't know about your site asks why are you are wearing a black rubber band, you can easily explain it away or tell the truth.

How does this idea sound to you?

A. So how does another person see the rubber band if they are small and inconspicuous? If you are talking with an attractive female, are you going to slide your shirt sleeve up to reveal the band around your wrist? I am just trying to get the mental picture of how this would work. Instead of a rubber band, how about having the band for your watch a certain color? Or how about a certain piece of jewelry around your wrist? I am all for helping people to connect so I have no problem with your idea, other than the color you have chosen for the band.

Colors are of the deepest significance. They have more influence on us then we can possibly imagine. Medical science has proven that different colors have definite and various effects upon our mind and our nervous system. People who study marketing have discovered that different colors can affect people’s moods and emotions.