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I would recommend joining a female domination support group if you live near a large city, where one might exist. If you don't have this option, there is a new invention out there that allows like-minded people to communicate with each other. It's called the Internet and I am sure that you have access to it or you wouldn't know about me.

Use the Internet and make contacts with other F/D couples. Build a friendship by using e-mail and then call each other on the telephone. Then once you are comfortable with another dominant woman, set-up a time and a place to meet. Go out to dinner.

If you are still comfortable, afterwards arrange a time and place where you can dominate your husband in front of her. She might want to do the same. The fact that you will know that she's into F/D before you ever meet with her will make it easy to play in front of her or watch her play in front of you. Be patient and selective and you shouldn't have any trouble making new friends who are into this lifestyle. Remember that there are others out there just like you who are also searching for another couple that they can trust and share ideas with.

Q. Elise, what do you think about the wife forcing the husband to take her last name when they get married?