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If your husband wasn't submissive顺从 — willing to obey, you would still be a Dominant woman, however most of your dominant energy and nature would be dormant because there would not be a submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature there drawing it out of you. Your nature would still exist, but if you don't exercise it then it would never grow or flourish. Your husband's nature is what gives your nature the chance to be expressed and exercised. Most Dominant women are introduced to D&S by a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. It is rare for a woman to seek out D&S on her own.
Why? Because it takes a submissive顺从 — willing to obey to seduce and to draw the previously dormant dominant nature and energy out of the woman. I am sure that you have been an out-going and aggressive female your entire life.