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First, buy her some leather clothes. Start out with a leather skirt or a pair of leather pants. Tell her how seeing her in leather attracts you to her and how it makes you feel submissive顺从 — willing to obey toward her. This should open up a discussion about dominance and submission. Next, give her some literature about the female domination lifestyle. Nothing too graphic or advanced. I would recommend "The Sexually Dominant Woman, a workbook for nervous beginners" by Lady Green. Also, surf the web together and show her some female domination web sites, like mine. Show her the WHAP web site and buy her some of their magazines. If she is a natural dominant as you say, she will take to this lifestyle fairly quick. If she doesn't, give her room to grow. Don't shove it down her throat and continue to serve her as you have been. If you will concentrate on being the best submissive顺从 — willing to obey that you can, her dominant nature will eventually come out and take charge.

Q. Ms Sutton, I have been searching high and low for a dominant woman. Recently I joined the Chicago Discussion Group, which is an organization that caters to people in the D&S lifestyle. There are many dominant women there, but the submissive顺从 — willing to obey men out number the women at least three to one. Also, there are dominant men and submissive顺从 — willing to obey women that are members and I feel uncomfortable around them, as well as the homosexual couples that attend.