Real Stories - November 2018

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PREDOMINANT: Have you ever seen a clothed woman spank a naked man at one of your parties, even if it was just a few bare hand smacks on his tush?

DIANE: Yes, playful butt slapping is common. But I have never seen it migrate to anything of a true S&M encounter. Our parties are designed to be low key (at least at the beginning), friendly and inviting such that the universe of those interested in coming is vastly expanded to include those into more standard and traditional sexual pursuits.

There are female dominants that do come, and are dressed to establish their interest in the fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing. But their pursuits with any of the males occur privately after the party. These parties serve as a great environment for potential sub顺从者 — a submissive person/domme女主人 — a dominant woman matching.

However, I do believe there is a trend in the BDSM community of CFNM女着衣男裸体 — clothed women, naked men parties that include all types of variations of S&M, including caning藤条抽打 — hitting with a thin rod, whipping and ballbusting. I have never attended one of these.

PREDOMINANT: Have you ever seen a woman squeeze a man's balls in a forceful way (as if to show him who is the boss)?

DIANE: Yes! Mostly it is just a playful “Gotcha!” that makes the man jump and brings laughter. Our rules, again, created by women, allow such grabbing openly and without worries as to whether the man has to invite such touching. Men coming know the women have pre-authorized consent to grab them in such a way, and fully at the discretion of the women.