Different Loving or Perversion? Questions about D&S, B&D and S&M

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Q. Elise, what is your favorite thing that you like to do when you are dominating a man?

A. That's a tough one. I like so many different things. I love to administer corporal punishment on a submissive顺从 — willing to obey. I love to have a submissive顺从 — willing to obey worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service my boots. However, I would say that my absolute favorites are a tie between verbal humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male and enforcing male chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm. Both of these make me feel very powerful and dominant.

Q. Elise, since you are a Psychologist, I was wondering. What do you think about S&M? I know that you are into D&S and B&D, but how do you feel about people who actually enjoy giving or receiving pain? Isn't this abnormal and unnatural?

A. Believe it or not, most S&M is played out in the mind and not on the body. Now there are people who practice bizarre lifestyles and who are into inflicting serious pain on others. In my professional opinion, these people are sick and they need help. However, society seems to group a lot of well-grounded people into the same category with these people. That's unfortunate because what most of the world views as S&M is really nothing more than advance D&S.