Different Loving or Perversion? Questions about D&S, B&D and S&M

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An adult male still longs for the feeling of his childhood where he would be punished by his mother or female guardian, but then afterwards he would also be hugged and nurtured by the same woman who punished him. Punishment and love go hand and hand. That is what female domination and D&S are all about.

Q. Elise, there are so many different "techniques" that women do to their men to get them to submit to them. I was wondering, where did all of these different techniques originate from? Some of these techniques seem a bit "extreme". Who came up with these techniques?