How To Get Started: Questions asked by the Novice Dominant Woman:

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I would also encourage you to perform the psychoanalysis that I have posted on my site. It will be an eye opening experience for the both of you. You will start to understand a little why he has these desires and where they originated from. If you do this, it is important that you are open minded and that you do not judge him. It is very important that he is secure that he can open up to you without the fear of being rejected. It is also important that you are honest with him. If there is an activity that you can't do for whatever reason, then tell him in a loving manner. Openness and honesty is what you both need to have for a successful relationship and sex life. One final thing, if you decide to embrace parts of this lifestyle, just relax and enjoy it. There is no right or wrong here. You two are married and you both should be able to enjoy each other and to fulfill each other. If you can't open up about your most secret and intimate desires with each other, then whom can you open up to? One of the saddest things is that men will come to me and confide in me their deepest desires, yet they are afraid to share these things with the woman who is the love of their life out of fear of rejection. I give you husband credit for having the courage to open up to his wife about his submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires. I give you credit for having the courage to write me. It is not easy to take a step into an area that is foreign to you. I wish you both the best.