How To Get Started: Questions asked by the Novice Dominant Woman:

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I agree with your assessment and I can empathize with you. However, what you are failing to take into consideration is the natural submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature of men. Men need to be under the control of women and men need to be disciplined and trained by women. Husbands need to be under the authority of their wives. Your husband recognizes this and he is trying to tell you this so you will take control of him. He wants to submit to you not so much for the fulfillment of a sexual fantasy (although there are some aspects of that) but rather because he needs the strong and loving hand of a female to rule his life and to keep him in line. Men need that. They needed it when they were little boys under the authority of female authority figures and they still need it today under the authority of their wives. As men mature, they begin to long for it.

You became angry when your husband gave you that present because in your mind it re-enforced your distrust of the male gender. You were hurt because a part of you was hoping that your husband was treating you like a Queen for no other reason than that he truly loved you and worshipped you. The gift of leather lingerie情趣内衣 — women's fancy underwear and the whip made you feel disappointed and hurt due to all that you have experienced in the past. You never stopped to consider the meaning of the contents of his gift. You quickly judged the situation due to past hurts and past disappointments.