How To Get Started: Questions asked by the Novice Dominant Woman:

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If wearing a little leather and using a whip will motivate him to treat you like Queen and will cause him to submit to your authority, then do it. Isn't a marriage supposed to be a win/win relationship where both partners are fulfilled by giving to each other? So give him what he needs in order to provide him with the motivation that he needs to give you what you need and deserve. He wants to treat you like a Queen. He wants to submit to you. He wants to worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service you. It is up to you lead him where he wants to go. By doing this, you will experience much fulfillment and much satisfaction. Why not give it a sincere try? You just may gain a better marriage and a deeper, more meaningful relationship.

Q. Hello I would like to start off by thanking you for your site it has been so wonderful and very helpful just retaining the information. I am fairly new to this lifestyle, and I am a bit uncomfortable with proceeding with some of the exercises. For example fearing when I spank him I will hurt him, or spank too hard, or when I grab his balls I will torture him. Did you ever fear any of this when you first starting into this lifestyle?