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KAT: Mouse (Kat’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey male partner) and I began exploring S/M as part of our love relationship about two years ago. As we played, we found that the closer our experiences came to "reality", the hotter they were. I also found this to be true later when I worked professionally for a while. So, our basic attitude is that people who engage in S/M should allow something REAL to happen within themselves, not just behaviorally. Since we want our S/M experiences, our ``scene'', if you will, to be real, we don't use "safe words安全词 — a word that means stop". (Words used by the submissive顺从 — willing to obey when the action is too heavy for him.) We do this because we feel that if the dominant cannot tell where her submissive顺从 — willing to obey is--by intuition (or telepathy), physical signs, strategic communications -- then she shouldn't be dominating in the first place. She should be able to tell where it's hot, where it's not, and where the stopping point is. She should know how to take her submissive顺从 — willing to obey beyond some of the limits he thinks he has.

C.A.: How would the dominant be able to tell all this without words being spoken?